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Shortly before I married my husband, I finally left Christianity behind, for many reasons. I was finally able to think about who I really am and what I really believe without some old white guy telling me the 'right' answers and condemning me for any deviance. Part of this was learning that I'm not straight.I realized that I was falling in love with one of my female friends (who is also bisexual).I told my husband as soon as I made that realization.(It's one of those things that when you put the pieces together and suddenly you're like, Ohhhhhhhhh!I also started to realize that strict monogamy may not be the best idea for me.I would very much like to be able to love more than one person, but my husband is and wants us to remain strictly monogamous. I think my parents would accept my bisexuality, especially since I'm married to a man and therefore not actually dating women, but they're still busy processing the fact that I'm not Christian.You know that you've hit on the truth.) And, for most of our relationship, all it's really meant is making some past relationships with women make a whole lot more sense.In the past year, my younger son has started asking some really insightful questions about gender issues and sexual orientation (like, ' Why is sexual orientation defined only by what body part goes where? A couple of weeks ago, during one of our conversations, I knew I had an opportunity to share this facet of myself with him. ' It took him a long time to answer, and I said, ' You've never really thought about it, have you?
It's like coming out all over again and I've experienced resistance against it.
When we moved into our new house, which is in a pretty normal sleepy community, it was almost Fourth of July and everyone had American Flags so we got a rainbow American Flag and put it out.
I kind of held my breath waiting for neighbors to react, but they were like, 'Yay! ' Even the 75-year-old lady with the NRA stickers on her car was a huge fan." "One of my most jarring experiences as a bi woman was when, in a play group, one of the other mothers asked really earnestly, 'What would you guys do if your kid turned out to be gay?
For him, it was just another thing to know about his mom, to file with things like my being a writer, growing up in Connecticut, etc.
But for me, it was an amazing experience of feeling like he was finally seeing a more complete picture of who I am. Even living in San Francisco, the assumption people make about me is that I'm straight." "I am a bi woman currently dating a bi man.Lesbians often do not think that I am gay enough or that I am pretending, or see my current relationship as me hiding my true self to blend in. I think, based on our conversations together, that he gets remarks like these more often than I do.